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Adoption - one way to boost women's confidence
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I am tired of seeing women who are desperate enough to get married that they lower their standards to get married only to end up worse than before.
One of their greatest fears is that their biological clocks are ticking so they want to get married ASAP so as to start their families.
Even when they get married, sometimes it takes time before they conceive.
Now there is a solution - Adoption

Adoption is the legal process of acquiring a child and bringing up the child as yours. It has been practised as far as the Roman era. Why is it now a taboo to adopt?

Tell someone to adopt, they would say, " God forbid!!! When i am capable."

This has led to so much pain among women across all social strata.

This is what I proffer:- If you are woman of means, you are not married, and you are above 30, take this piece of advice from a woman who knows- adopt. It is better than getting impregnated by any man, because I tell you, in the future, that child would ask for his/her father and it could be painful if you can not produce him.

But in adoption, the child already knows he/she is adopted, so the issue of fatherhood would not be there. Good male friends and relatives could take the role as father.
And you may never know, the arrival of that child could usher in Mr Right who would accept you and the child. You would go on and have your children, and live happily ever after.

Even if you don't get married as soon as you wish, you would not be under pressure to lower your standards and by God's grace the right guy would come around.

Adoption is not for infertile couples. If you are looking for love, look for someone to love. Who better to give than an orphan.

SO ADOPT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

September 4, 2008 | 1:15 PM Comments  0 comments

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